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What is a doula...

in perinatal mourning: sensitive support during the ordeal

Who is she?


A perinatal bereavement doula supports families facing the death of their baby, whether it occurs spontaneously or following a medical termination of pregnancy (MTP). She offers tailored support for the loss of a baby during pregnancy, at birth, or shortly thereafter—an experience often marked by pain and isolation in a society where this type of grief remains taboo.


What it brings


A space for listening and emotional support

  • Creates a safe environment to express all emotions;

  • Welcome each feeling without judgment (sadness, anger, feeling of injustice);

  • Offers a caring presence, whether to talk or simply be together;

  • Helps navigate the different stages of grief at a personalized pace.


Practical and informative support

  • Guide through the steps surrounding loss;

  • Help in preparing meaningful goodbye rituals;

  • Informs about possible physical and emotional reactions;

  • Refers to specialized resources as needed.


Support over time

  • Remain present in the days, weeks and months that follow;

  • Provides appropriate emotional and practical support;

  • Help find ways to honor the baby and their memory;

  • Supports adaptation to a new reality.


A presence that breaks isolation

  • Fully recognizes the existence and importance of the baby;

  • Validates parental experience despite loss;

  • Helps break the silence around perinatal bereavement;

  • Brings essential gentleness to this ordeal.


Services that a perinatal bereavement doula can offer

  • Personalized meetings before, during and after the loss;

  • Support during pregnancy and at the time of birth;

  • Support in administrative and legal procedures related to death;

  • Help in creating rituals and memorials;

  • Adapted postnatal support;

  • ...

photo of a very small hand of a newborn baby touching the fingers of a parent's hand to represent perinatal grief

@withbarbara_doulapphotographer

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